We never know what might hurt another persons feelings. Well, Sometimes we know what will, but there are times when we have no idea we have hurt another. That's why it is important to pay attention to your friends and loved ones. If they are acting differently towards you, possibly avoiding you or avoiding eye contact. Yes this can mean any number of things. But think back to recent events and conversations. If you can not think of anything ask them outright. Something like "Hey are we OK? Because I have noticed you seem a little distant lately" Something of that nature. In the past few months I have had a few instances where someone has hurt me very deeply. People that I thought really cared. And perhaps they still do but I have not been able to fully trust them since these events have taken place. Just know that if you truly value another person, and you think there is any chance that you have hurt them. The best way to mend the relationship is to talk about it.
Be honest and open and apologize if you should. BUT Remember that friends get us through so much and we really do need them. Put your pride aside for a while and fix it!
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